Friend dating my ex
I gave a party two months after the break-up and I asked this guy to respect my feelings and our friendship and not spend time with my ex-girlfriend.However he blatantly ignored my request and spent all night with her.
But seriously, while it's definitely not kosher to have feelings for your friend's girlfriend, after they've broken up, all bets are pretty much off.The guy might want to wait a bit before starting anything with you out of courtesy to his friend. Also, be prepared for him to not want to get involved with his buddy's ex at all.) But you don't owe your ex anything. Even if he's jealous, he'll have to get over it eventually.If your break-up is civil and you're still friendly, maybe give it a couple of months.I haven't talked to her since but i know she dated a guy for about a month in february. So i dated this girl for 15 months we were planning on going to different colleges...last july she broke up with me saying her feelings had changed and that she just wanted to be friends.I haven't talked to her since but i know she dated a guy for about a month in february.
Unless you're a terrible person, you probably don't want to trample your ex's heart in the process of nurturing your new flame. And, guess what, your new squeeze—who just might be a nice person! As noted journalist Mary Schmich once said, "don't be reckless with other people's hearts." There's no need to punch an innocent bystander in their tender bits because you've gotten burned or are pining for someone else. If you were the one who got dumped however, we think you have a little more leverage in pursuing your ex's pal; after all s/he didn't want you anymore, right? I don’t care if it’s a casual acquaintance, I don’t care if it’s your best friend in the whole world, and I don’t care who broke up with whom.